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Turning Self-Doubt into Opportunity

  • Writer: Tosca DiMatteo
    Tosca DiMatteo
  • Feb 10
  • 1 min read

Updated: Mar 2


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I’m working on a reframe.

A few months ago I came across a speaker competition opportunity and I completely dismissed it before I even had a chance to think about it.

Have you ever done that before? Squash something before you even truly evaluated it?

I hate competitions and I hate losing. I certainly don’t look at my speaking career as a competitive sport, so I deleted the email immediately. NEXT.

But then, weeks later I woke up in the middle of the night and looked at my emails (total bad habit). And there it was … the competition opportunity once again in my inbox.

Only this time I stopped.

I said WHY NOT?

Why not put my hat in the ring?

Why not look at this as an opportunity to hone my craft?

Why not see it as a personal growth opportunity?

So here I am… working on my 5 minute story.

I tell my clients all the time …What’s there to lose?

How else can you frame this that serves you?

What script are you gonna flip today?

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