It Is Written In The Stars
- Tosca DiMatteo
- Aug 5
- 2 min read

What if you knew without a shadow of a doubt that what was meant for you wouldn't pass you by?
Would you be less stressed?
Would you give yourself a little break?
Would you feel more at ease?
The answer, is yes! You would feel less stressed and more at ease because you would let go of the reigns of control and stop forcing things to happen.
If you believed that what's meant for you won't pass you by then you would be more willing to allow and trust in what you can’t see.
Anytime I think about this concept it’s a reminder that there is no wrong choice.
We put so much pressure on ourselves to make the right decision, choose the right location, hire the best employee hire, pick the right job opportunity...all the things.
But what if what’s meant for you is written in the stars? And I don’t mean fate. I don’t mean destiny. But I mean that there are things outside of your control that will come together on your behalf.
The proof is in the pudding...
Let me tell you about how I met my husband (which btw, the bigger story on this in episode 62: An Unexpected Love Story on The Unlock Lab). I put in very few applications for my MBA. I don’t know why exactly. But there were just a few. And one of them was an out-of state-school in a state I had never even been to - Michigan State University. All roads led to MSU, the one school I got into. I didn’t even have to make a choice. I met my figure husband before the first day of classes.
Written in the stars?
I’d say so.
Still not a believer?
After years of my inner critic getting the best of me, I claimed that I was a global speaker for the first time in a networking meeting years ago. Someone in that meeting referred me to be a keynote speaker to someone she knew; within weeks my first big gig was booked.
Written in the stars?
It was absolutely meant to be.
What if what we want doesn’t have to come with blood, sweat and tears? What if it could be a bit easier than what we are allowing it to be.
My offer to you is this; if all you know is stress in the pursuit of what you want - consider a new message to send yourself -
It’s written in the stars.
Start to believe it’s true and see the magic unfold.
Do you have a story like one of these? Where like magic, what you desired appeared, seemingly out of no where?
If you're ready to stop chasing and start trusting, let’s talk. Sometimes all it takes is one conversation to shift how you see your path - click here to set up time.